~~ friend ~~

Friendship

- is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between us.

- respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other,

-Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge

-They will share enjoyable activities.

- They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship.

-A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them.

-Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:
~the tendency to desire what is best for the other,
~sympathy and empathy,
~honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth,
in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart
mutual understanding.

-In a comparison of personal relationships, friendship is considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations.

-Friendship and association can be thought of as spanning across the same continuum. The study of friendship is included in sociology, anthropology, philosophy, and zoology.
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This is some info that i found from a book - Friend .
actually~~~
I believe that 5 of us understand the meaning of friend since we were little chidren , but we often ignore it . Agree ?
I believe that our relationship is a miracle , do u agree with it ?
I also know that in Jesus name we all are His children , and as bro and sis , I sincerely hope that our friendship will be a relationship that deeper than friendship ...

Blur with what I'm tyring to say ???
I'm sure that we are clever ppl , so no need long explanation by me . ^^

the reason i wrote this are :
5 of us are separated in different places , me-penang ; benson-tampin ; sheng-terengganu ; tsai sheng-moscow ; lastly , jun hong-cyberjaya . Although we always keep in TOUCh , but we are getting not willing to share our personal problem including me . We are getting apart from each other . This is my feeling , i dun kw how u all feel , but i hope that , sharing may allow in our heart in every moment .
hope that Giving , sharing , n Involving will keep in our relationship often ...

secondly , i've been betrated by a christian friend in my study place , She is the most close friend that i met there , but sad things happen between us , I started not to easily believe in human although he/she is a christian . I scared to tell u al , n paiseh to let u kw my problem ...
This make me more appreciate the relationship between us .

Again , this is my feeling ...

If gt any negative factor on it , i may say " sorry" to al of u ...

Gambateh to al of u ...
especially tsai sheng ----> take care loooooooooootz ya !!!

God BleSsssssssssss

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